BECOMING A NEW YOU

I wanted to address a particular trend I’ve noticed becoming more and more popular. With it comes confusion and I would like to make some definitions as to the different ways in which transformational coaching and spiritual coaching or helping people to transition into a higher vibration and transform out of the matrix, is being sold incorrectly. I wanted to break that new age flavoured spell.

Only Do Good

Just like the new age spell to only look at the light and ignore the dark is a form of slavery and you cannot integrate your inner child or shadow work that way and grow and expand your consciousness if you only do “good” think it or say it. This is because “good” is subjective and your good may actually be harming another. Without knowing dark you cannot know what light is and that they both coexist. Flies die trapped in lamps because they only look at the light. Just as much as being blind in the dark makes you trip up and have accidents and ends up harming yourself as well as others. So, the only be good, do good, think good is a Psy-op to allow you to be in a false light believing the dark is light and the opposites. So in a false light under an enchantment spell of good sentiments but not doing the inner homework of how you can be fooled by thinking you can’t. And how you can be manipulated into systems you think are good, but in fact are evil etc.

Dissolving Ego

The other new age myth is that you have to dissolve your ego to transcend and become a new higher vibe free thinking person, nonsense! The only people without an ego are dead people. No, you have to control your ego instead. It runs you with your reactive emotions and feelings, it likes you not to pause and think, it wants you to just react, it waves your reactions without thought. It wants you to be in black or white, no middle ground, no thinking before acting or responding. Your ego pulls at your emotions to get you into black or white, good or evil. No subtlety at all. So, when you gain control of your emotions you become in control of your ego. You can then play with that ego that’s done or doing the inner child stuff, the shadow self stuff, the self-love stuff. Then the ego doesn’t harm others or try to get a ride from others or is aware of conflict behaviours and avoiding them, and is no longer interested in drama or toxic people. Instead, it’s more interested in helping others, more definition about their morals and ethics and more interested in creating value rather than divisions or self-gains. So no, you don’t dissolve your ego, you gain control of your emotions then control of your lovely kind and nice self-loving ego to actually do real conscious good and not the virtue signalling pseudo spiritual do gooding. So that’s new age myth no.02 busted. You each have a wonderful personality that will help benefit others. Cherish your ego so that it’s not harming you or others, as it’s your unique character and that is to be celebrated.

Becoming

So back to the “becoming” myth. I wanted to show you how that is weaponised too, and how people go down the wrong path from that advice, but also what the correct meaning and process of the way of really transforming into a new person actually looks like. The two paths are very different and have very different consequences. So, I think it’s important you know which option from which path to choose.

So where do you go?

The reason that many people are wanting to come out of the 3D slavery matrix is because they have seen things or been involved in situations that have made them suffer. That is exactly why you and others like you want to exit this harmful and evil system. It is for this very reason that you have compassion, you have a heart, you have empathy and can feel for others who are also suffering. You see needless conflict, division and hate, you see people harming themselves and others unawares. You see people jumping on bandwagons without knowing what they are doing and trying to coerce others to do the same.

You see ideologies and false beliefs, you see people in ego and you see a gradual decline in social structures and an increase in authority that restricts people’s privacy and freedoms. You see corruption and unethical and immoral behaviour, greed and hunger for power and control. This is why you probably want to exit the slavery matrix as soon as you can. This is because it is you who you are changing.

This is the “why” you wish to no longer be that person you once were. You don’t want to be that gullible fool who was hypnotised and gaslighted in a toxic society. You don’t want to have to put up with abusive egotistical types or people with no compassion for others. You don’t want to have to put up with narcissistic or psychotic people. You have seen now how the matrix suppresses your freedom, over intrusive spying and tracking of its “citizens” considered lost cargo at sea and a dead entity by the courts. You see how the institutions are gate keepers and how governments treat their populations with utter contempt.

That is not living, that is just surviving. There is no soul in the matrix and there is no love. There is only the good hearts and intentions of those in the matrix still propping it up unawares of what they are doing.

The New Age Diversion

So, the narrative goes something like this-

You are a person who is waking up to the corruption, you are a kind person who just wants to get along with others and thrive. You have realised through that living experience that you are in a system that seems inhumane. So you are seeking answers, you are becoming more religious, or more spiritual in the process. You want to transform and become a more loving and light being and come out of suffering. But to do that transformation you have to release and let go of the “old you” and embrace a “new you” that you want to become. There is subtlety here, because the reason you are wanting out from the matrix is because the matrix is not loving and you are.

Confusion

So lots of people get confused at this point. They are under the false belief that they have to completely change who they are. They get confused because the very thing that woke them up and made them see the cracks in the matrix was their own core values, morals and ethics being abused and you experiencing suffering. They have decided that enough is enough and they want an alternate more loving and peaceful society.

So here you are, you know what you don’t want, and you are working to improve yourself and seek more of a spiritual experience. You’ve been told that you can become anything you like and that is for you to discover and create that new version of that higher vibe being.

So many people get lost on their path at this point. They change up everything about themselves and drastically too, thinking they have to find a new way of being. Yet in the process they lose sight of their core values that brought them to that expanded perception.

So, it’s incredibly important that you do not lose sight of your own core values, your morals and ethics and love for yourself. Not harming yourself and love for others has shown you that you have higher moral and ethical values than mainstream toxic society.

It doesn’t mean that because these core values, morals and ethics were forged in darkness, that you should also throw those values away or lose them whilst becoming your new self. No.

What you do is progress your core values by changing up your relationships that make you suffer, or the situations too. Those get removed and change but that’s because you are now choosing more of what is actually aligned with those original values of yours. In fact, your core values become more reinforced and your reality changes into more of what you value the most for you.

You believe in peace

You believe in protecting children

You believe in being moral and ethical

You don’t particularly believe in any religion

You don’t believe or trust in Government

You don’t believe in harming animals

You don’t believe in harming the planet

You believe in fair justice equal to all

You believe in natural whole foods

You believe in contributing to your community

You believe in ethical practices

You believe in a personal code of conduct

You believe in self-governance

You believe in individual unity consciousness

You believe in mutual energy exchanges

You believe in kindness and compassion

You believe in treating others as they should treat you.

There are many reasons why you each have had that wake-up call. Generally though there is a common thread of similarity between all of you.

You tend to –

Have been an original believer in the system initially

Have strong morals

Have strong ethics.

Have been through relationships and still choose love not bitterness

Have had traumatic or eye-opening experiences that showed you more of life

Believe in creating something better

Become more spiritual in the process

Have changing life priorities

Want to be in a society with more loving unity that is not toxic

So, you don’t have to change everything up about you to evolve and progress with your Ascension. Keep and upgrade your new priorities and continually remove and clear toxins or situations or thoughts that no longer serve you or are part of you.

Strip out the things that cause you resistances and that makes room for new upgrades and experiences to start coming into your reality.

Where people go wrong is that they lose their core values because they think they have to change those up with everything else. Then they lose sight of who they are at their core, what their values and needs and likes are and then lose sight of who they are and become confused, lost and depressed.

Which is exactly what the cabal wants. It wants people to deconstruct all their original values, morals and ethics and throw them to the wind so that you strip your core compassionate moral and ethical values out of yourself.

Core Values

So your core values are the very thing that you need to hold on to whilst becoming the new expanded version of you. You need to hold on to those values because if you don’t hold on to them, they will be diluted and removed under your confusion.

You see it’s not very popular to speak the truth these days as it offends the hypnotised who are living in the illusion of 3D reality. So becoming non-toxic in a toxic society is frowned upon because you are no longer a compliant slave to false authorities and instead are using your own discernment and judgement and self-governing. You are being a more conscious soul and, in that process, you need to protect your new found increasing peace of mind.

So holding on to your core values, your morals and ethics and the code of self-conduct you have is important as you ascend the frequencies upwards.

A Coat Hanger

With the core values, it’s how you like to be treated by others and how you think you should treat others. So whatever avenues of opportunity you are exploring whilst finding out if they resonate with you, your core values will underpin everything. You should not have to compromise on your core values at any time, and if you are being pressured into doing so, then it’s a choice you have to make. Do you turn a blind eye or do you stay true and aligned to your natural calling without undue pressure or persuasion from others?

You will be seen by some as vulnerable and therefore an opportunity to take advantage of unfortunately. It is important to know those core values of yours. Otherwise people will cross those boundaries or make you loosen yours. Don’t do it for offers or opportunities that are seemingly too good to be true, because they usually are too good to be true.

Hold on to your heart and let that be your rudder through your ascension process and steer you to where you like to be. In that new version of you that has started to bloom and blossom into your transformation.

For you to have come out of the Matrix and its slavery machinery, you must have kept hold of love and compassion. These are the genetic traits that the cabal likes to breed out of the human population. Having empathy means you are able to see things from another person’s perspective and so are able then to see yourself from another person’s perspective. This means that you are able to observe yourself via others perspectives which gives you an external feedback self-checking mechanism for your own benefit. Meaning you won’t fall into Dunning-Kruger effect or Stockholm Syndrome or Anosognosia.

You see the State requires its population and its individuals to be unconscious of who they actually are. They want people in that perpetual state of distraction and reaction.

Anosognosia is a term used in psychiatry, it means that a person is too unwell to know that they are unwell. Mostly affecting brain and cognitive functions. So an example is where a person has had brain damage on their right brain lobe and they lose the creativity or empathy or nurturing abilities that they had before, but they are unaware they have lost them from illness or injury and still think they are able. Yet others, who know the before and after version, will say their personality and character had changed and the unwell person has become less empathetic and kind for example. I’m not talking about subtle changes in people’s demeanour, no I mean actual changes to their personality that are more disabling. Yet the person who has become unwell has not noticed this, as it is the nature of their condition to be unaware and also because of such, will deny there is an issue.

So having love, compassion, kindness and happiness are what actually makes us human. It’s the symptom or effects or affect of holding on to love and not becoming bitter. It’s the difference between arrogance and confidence, or the difference between fake virtue ego signalling, and the real humility and gratitude.

So yes, holding on to your own code of conduct, morals and ethics is what keeps you human. It’s also what connects Source to your consciousness and also how the vessel, your body, holds on to its connection with that divine internal light chord of source.

Your ability to “read the room” or to interpret how others perceive you, and think about you, is the very thing that the cabal wants to disrupt or cut off from you. Your empathy and compassion are your ability to understand or read others, but it also comes with the ability to understand ourselves from the perspectives of others. Which means it is a way of self-reference by seeing oneself through the eyes of others.

Also, as each person sees their own version of you, and it’s not your version of you, it’s nice to see what other versions of you are like in those other people. This then gives you “insight” into how other people create their projected version of you but with their own traits and subconscious bias added.

Changing your Hand

Opening a cupboard door with the opposite hand, drinking a cuppa with the other hand, resting your crossed legs the opposite way. Walking to work a different route, doing something you would not normally do but have entertained the thought of.

These are some of the ways that you can rework your neural network and bring new thoughts and ideas and information to you, things that you would not have experienced if you had not changed-up your routines.

This then brings out other facets or aspects or dimensions of you that you didn’t know you had until trying them out.

So having curiosity and an open flexible upgrading belief system is also a sign of a healthy brain that is considering it may have been incorrect from the beginning. Looking for answers with the will to know the true real answers even if they’re not nice. It’s still worthy of understanding but not entangling. All this with the motivation to learn new things and remain loving while doing it.

These are all signs that you have not been genetically bred to be a biological zombie or a slave and that you still have that divine connection to Source that you are. You have standards and they are not toxic but ethical and loving. Keep hold of that light and those superpowers please.